Pickleball Etiquette 101: How Not to Be That Player
So you’ve caught the pickleball bug—welcome to the club! Whether you’re just starting out or dipping your paddle into open play for the first time, understanding a little court etiquette goes a long way in making you a dink-worthy partner and opponent.
This isn’t Wimbledon—we’re here to have fun—but there are a few unwritten (and now written) rules that’ll help you play well with others. Here’s your beginner-friendly guide to Pickleball Etiquette...with a side of sass and smiles.
Rule #1. Don’t Be a Court Crasher
If players are in the middle of a point, resist the urge to sprint across the court to grab an open one. It’s not a race (even though we know some of y’all can hustle!). Wait until their rally is over, then politely and quickly walk behind them to your court. Bonus points if you do it with a smile and a “thanks!”
Rule #2: Call the Score Like You Mean It
Before serving, announce the score clearly and loudly. Not only is this good etiquette, but let’s be real—no one ever remembers the score (seriously, it’s the most commonly debated topic on a court next to “Was that ball in?”). Saying it loud helps everyone stay on the same page—and avoids accidental serves to people still chatting or tying shoes.
Rule #3. Be Honest with Line Calls
Here’s a good rule: If you're not sure, it’s in. Give your opponent the benefit of the doubt. Recreational pickleball is meant to be friendly. Unless you’re playing in the finals of a national tournament (spoiler alert: you’re not), it’s just not worth squabbling over that maybe-it-was-out shot.
And if you do make a bad call and realize it? Own it. Your reputation will thank you.
Rule #4. Keep the Coaching to Yourself
Unsolicited advice is like unrequested kale chips — not everyone wants it. Even if you could help someone fix their serve, don’t—unless they ask. As a coach, I know how tempting it is to help, but respecting boundaries is part of good etiquette.
If someone’s new and asks for help? Absolutely, lend a hand. But please don’t be the self-appointed Open Play Commentator. Let folks enjoy learning in their own way and time.
Rule #5. Tap It, Don’t Smash It
At the end of each game, paddle tap with your opponents as a sign of sportsmanship. But please, I beg you, tap gently. These paddles are pricey, and while you might want to do a celebratory clink of joy, don’t turn it into a WWE smackdown. Keep it classy, not clash-y.
Rule #6. Celebrate Like a Pro (a Chill One)
A fist bump, paddle tap (lightly) or a quick “Nice shot!” to your partner is awesome. But maybe don’t do a full-on touchdown dance every time you get a dink over the net. Unless, of course, you’re playing against your spouse or bestie and it’s all in good fun (in that case, trash talk away — just don’t throw your back out mid-victory dance 😆).
BONUS: A Few More Pro Tips
- Rotate in with grace. If you're playing open play with paddle stacks or rotation rules, follow the system and don’t try to skip ahead.
- Introduce yourself. New partners? Quick names before you start help everyone feel more connected.
- Watch your volume. Keep cheering fun, not obnoxious. No one likes a screamer (unless you just won a gold medal).
- Be welcoming. If someone looks new or nervous, say hello! Invite them to play. You remember your first time, right
Quick Recap: Be Cool, Be Kind, Be Pickleball
Pickleball is growing fast because it’s fun, friendly, and social—let’s keep it that way. A little courtesy and good vibes go a long way, especially when you're playing with people you've just met.
Have fun out there, give grace, and remember: you don’t need to be the best player on the court—you just need to be the one people want to play with again. 😉
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